The Seasonal Table: A Monthly Brunch
A Confluence of Women, Magic, and Meaning
Come as you are. Bring a dish. Leave feeling nourished.
In the heart of winter, we gather to honor the stillness, reflection, and quiet magic that Midwinter brings. January invites us to pause, restore, and root ourselves in warmth — both within and among community. Here, in the deepest part of the season, we remember what supports us, rest into what is, and gently dream toward what may come.
Midwinter Theme
Honoring Stillness, Reflection & Rest
Suggested Altar Item: Bring an object that evokes calm, connection, and restoration — a candle, soft textile, winter greenery, or something personally meaningful that represents your intention for reflection and renewal.
Optional Dress Theme: Comfortable, cozy, and grounding — muted tones, soft textures, layers that feel nurturing, or touches of white and silver to honor the season’s stillness.
What These Gatherings Are
These brunches are not formal women’s circles or spiritual workshops. There’s no pressure to share, perform, or participate in anything structured.
They are simply safe, welcoming spaces for women to come together — to take a break, enjoy nourishing food, meet new friends, and mark the changing seasons in a gentle, intentional way.
Come to relax, connect, and feel held in community. That’s more than enough.
How It Works
Potluck Style: Bring a vegetarian or vegan dish to share
When registering, you’ll be prompted to choose a dish category. If a category fills up, we’ll ask you to select a different option so we can keep a balanced variety of dishes. No need to prepare enough food for a crowd of 20+ — with each woman bringing something, there’s always more than enough to share. (Of course, if you love to cook and want to go big, we welcome that too!)
Please include a list of ingredients (for allergy awareness) with your dish at the gathering and bring your own serving utensils!
Appetizers and main course dishes should be vegetarian or vegan, and we kindly ask that you include a list of ingredients for those with food allergies or sensitivities
A fully equipped kitchen is available on-site
Plates, cups, utensils, tea, and water will be provided — just bring your beautiful self and your dish to share
These are non-alcoholic events
Each gathering includes a seasonal blessing before brunch
You are warmly invited to bring a small item for our communal altar that reflects the season or the celebration’s theme (optional, but welcome)
Address: Rogers Lake Clubhouse, 75 Rogers Lake Trail, Old Lyme, CT 06371 (PLEASE DO NOT PARK ON THE GRASS - there is additional parking behind the building) Please be considerate of surrounding neighbors.
$20 pp
Bringing Your Daughter
We warmly welcome girls ages 12 and up who would enjoy and benefit from the space. These gatherings are gentle, reflective, and rooted in meaningful connection — so we kindly ask that younger children not attend, in order to preserve the calm, nourishing atmosphere.
There is no charge for daughters — Simply bring a dish to share, or if your daughter prefers, she can contribute a small item to add to the table.
Each young woman must be accompanied by an adult. This is a beautiful way to share the magic of seasonal gatherings across generations.
Giving Back: January Clothing Exchange — Outerwear
As part of our commitment to community care and thoughtful living, each gathering includes a monthly Clothing Exchange. For January, we invite you to bring outerwear to share:
Wool coats
Puffer jackets
Warm winter vests
Lightly used cold-weather layers
All items placed on the exchange table are available for any participant to take home — a gentle, sustainable way to refresh your wardrobe while passing along pieces you no longer need.
A Circle of Care:
At the end of the event, any unclaimed items will be donated directly to a local women’s shelter. Your contribution provides warmth, dignity, and support during the coldest part of winter, extending the spirit of Midwinter generosity beyond our gathering.
Whether you bring one item or several, your offering becomes part of a beautiful cycle of giving, receiving, and caring for our wider community.
Want to Bring a Little Extra Magic or Fun?
These gatherings are spacious and relaxed — and if you feel called to bring something that brings you joy or invites gentle connection, please do. A few ideas:
Tarot or oracle cards for casual readings and soulful conversation
Knitting, crocheting, or handwork to work on while you chat and sip tea
Journals for reflection or intention-setting
You’re also welcome to bring items that complement our Oracle Exchange Table, Magical Craft Table, or Seasonal Ritual Table:
A gently used tarot or oracle deck to offer to the Oracle & Tarot Exchange Table, where decks find new hands and new energy
A small craft supply or decorative element to share at the Magical Craft Table — things like markers, washi tape, ribbons, stickers, or seasonal ephemera
A small symbolic item — such as a stone, leaf, or handwritten intention — to contribute to the Seasonal Ritual Table, where our collective energy gathers for the Midwinter blessing
There’s no pressure to do anything but show up — but if you’d like to contribute to the atmosphere in a small way, we welcome it.
Nothing is required — this is an open-hearted invitation to co-create if it brings you joy. Feel free to reach out if you’d like to coordinate ahead of time!
Want to Help?
P.S. If you’d like to volunteer to help prepare the space, tend the altar, or support the flow — for one brunch or many — just let us know when you RSVP. Many hands make light, meaningful work.