Freya’s Journey to Peace: A Glimpse into the Life of a Former Amish Workhorse
Spring has always been a time of renewal and reflection for me. It’s a season that brings about change and growth, not just in nature, but within our lives and the lives of those around us. This spring, however, my thoughts frequently wander to Freya, my beautiful rescued draft horse, and the monumental changes she has undergone in her life. From her days as an Amish workhorse to her current peaceful existence, her story is one of resilience, transformation, and finding what works for her—lessons that, I believe, can inspire us all.
Freya's Former Life
Freya’s early life was markedly different from the serene days she enjoys now. Born into the world of the Amish, she was primarily viewed as a workhorse. Her days were filled with hard labor, serving as an indispensable part of everyday life and work in the Amish community. This life, while simple, demanded much from her—physically and emotionally.
The transition from such a demanding role to one of leisure and companionship is not without its challenges. Four months ago, when Freya first came into my life, the signs of her past were evident in her demeanor. She was anxious, wary of new environments and routines, and the idea of relaxation was foreign to her. The concept of just being, without the constant weight of work on her shoulders, was something she had never experienced before.
The Journey to Peace
Recognizing the deep-seated impact of her past experiences, I knew that Freya’s journey to peace would be a gradual one. It would require patience, understanding, and a personalized approach to cater to her unique needs. The transformation couldn’t happen overnight, and it wasn’t about erasing her past but helping her adapt and find comfort in her new life.
We've begun with modest steps akin to the subtle shift of seasons. I provide her ample space, letting her gradually familiarize herself with her new surroundings and with me at her own rhythm. My approach is gentle—I might spend a few minutes lightly grooming her before stepping back to allow her space to reflect. Our journey is marked by periods of rest and retreat, seeking her consent to share her space, offering treats, and providing reassurance, all designed to help her understand that her new world is one filled with kindness and comfort.
Yet, it’s not just about the physical adjustments. Freya needs to feel secure and loved, to recognize that her value is not tied to the work she could perform but simply because of who she is. We spend time just being together—me reading or working nearby while she munches contentedly in her paddock. These moments, seemingly small, are monumental in showing her that tranquility and companionship are now the norms of her existence.
Finding What Works
Every horse is different, and their journeys to peace and adaptation will vary. For Freya, the key lies in patience, routine, and positive reinforcement. It’s about celebrating the small victories and understanding that progress isn’t linear. Some days are better than others. Some days, the shadows of her past life seem to loom larger, and on those days, we simply take a step back, focusing on the now and reinforcing the safe space created for her.
This approach—focused on understanding and meeting her needs rather than enforcing a one-size-fits-all solution—is proving to be effective. Over time, Freya’s trust in her new surroundings and in me is growing. The anxious, wary expressions are beginning to give way to moments of peace and contentedness.
Reflections on the Transformation
Watching Freya’s transformation has been a deeply moving experience. It serves as a reminder of the power of empathy, patience, and personalized care. Her story is a testament to the resilience of the spirit and the possibility of renewal and growth, even after years of hardship.
Freya’s journey from workhorse to beloved companion may be her own, but the lessons learned from it resonate deeply. They speak to the importance of understanding, respecting, and catering to the individual needs of those in our care—whether they be animals or humans. It's about recognizing their past, supporting their present, and offering them a future where they can thrive.
As I reflect on Freya’s progress this spring, I am reminded of the beauty of transformation and the boundless capacity for change within us all. Her peace is now my peace, and together, we look forward to the countless springs we have yet to experience, each one a marker of growth, change, and continued healing.